Ukwabelana ngesondo ebusheni bunemiba evuyisayo: imizimba emihle kumaqabane amabini, ukukhululeka okukhulu, ukuzimisela ukunceda, nakumbandela wokunciphisa uxinzelelo lwezesondo. Lo dade wabona ukuba umnakwabo uqaqadekile, ephelelwa ngumoya, waza ke wagqiba kwelokuba amunyise aze amvumele amteketise. Ekugqibeleni bavuswa, baqala ukukhwela ekhitshini kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo.
Le ntwazana yaziphindezela kumfana wayo ngokuqhatha ngokuyibopha kwangaphambili. Kwaye ke phambi kwakhe waqalisa ukumunca incanca yesithandwa sakhe waza wamfaka. Ndicinga ukuba beze bobathathu. Ngumboniso omkhulu lowo.