Amasela anethamsanqa adibana nonogada onobubele. Kungenjalo, bekungayi kuba yindoda enye ekholisayo; Kufuneka unikezele kwiibhola ezinkulu zomlindi, unokubona kwividiyo ukuba elinye lamasela lifumene i-cum emlonyeni wakhe, nangona bekuya kuba ngokwaneleyo okwesibini.
Kuyabonakala ukuba umyeni wayenomfazi wakhe ukuba asebenze kangangokuba wayekulungele ukubeka nawuphi na umngxuma emzimbeni wakhe ukuze aphumle, ngoko ke wafumana ummelwane, awayemtyhola ngamaxesha athile phambi kwakhe. Ngexesha elifanayo akanqandeki ngokupheleleyo, kwaye unikezela kwi-esile, kwaye kuzo zonke ii-slits azicelayo, kuba iqhude lakhe elikhulu lithanda ngokucokisekileyo, ligweba ngokububula kwakhe, nangaphezulu ngokucokisekileyo.